Thought for the week Oct 1, 2015
Posted by Suguna Alluri
on Sep 21, 2015
"How to love people who irritate you? Why are they irritating you? Simply because, they are not the way you expect them to be. They are not the way you want them to be. If you believe in God, then the person who irritates you also happens to be a creation of God, and he seems to be such a masterpiece that he can just irritate the hell out of you, isn’t it? So, don’t deceive yourself. Just see irritation is happening because you have already decided what is right and what is wrong. You have decided, “This is the right way to be.” If they’re some other way, they will irritate you first, then you will get angry, then you will hate them, then you will want to kill them. This is a natural progression simply because you are expecting everybody in the world to be like you. If everybody in the world were like you, could you be here? In your own home, if there was one more person like you, could you live in that house? It’s very good that everybody in the world is the way they are. The person who is sitting next to you right now, if you look at them, you will see there is no other human being like this person anywhere in this planet. There never was one, there never will be one. There isn’t another one like that, and it is such a miracle for you that today you are sitting next to this human being who is absolutely unique. Where is the question of irritation? You’re blind, that is why you are irritated " - "From a Blog"